We are a sports loving family. Most days there is some sort of sports program on our TV. My boys are also naturally athletic, even at the young ages of 2 and 4. Although I love watching my children excel, it is important to offer encouragement even when they fail. I heard a parent say “Next year will be better. There is no losing.” This was in regards to the child’s loss in a match. I was mortified as the child had done very well at the sporting event.
A memorable sports year for me was when I was in 5th grade. I signed up for softball and had no idea how to play. Most of the girls on the team had played for years. Not only was I the newbie, but I was the smallest and I was terrible. What made the year so memorable was my coach- he was so encouraging! I am sure it was very difficult for him since I had no clue what to do. I never heard one negative thing from him or the girls on the team. I ended up getting Most Improved Player that year. I still remember that day clearly although it was so long ago.
As your child starts Spring sports remember to be encouraging. Teach them to be respectful to others by displaying good sportsmanship. Lift your child up with positive reinforcement- it will impact them for the rest of their lives!
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My son has been playing soccer for 6 years now and he’s only 10 now. From the very beginning we’ve had a great time and enjoy watching him have fun, win or lose. Our encouragement and light hearted take of just having fun, has rubbed off on him. I wish some parents knew how to teach their kids good sportsmanship. It’s great to want to win, but there is no need to rub a kids face in a lose. Everyone loses now and again.
Well said and thanks for the encouragement!
Thanks Karen! Yes, it is tough to keep it just a “game” when the focus is on winning or losing. Glad your son has fun playing soccer- that is what it is all about!